old friends

This is how I feel on Fridays. :)

Julia, Lisa, Emily, Rachael, Lizard, and I in SF in March. What you don't see is the 50 or so tourists staring at us wondering what we are doing. There is nothing better than old friends.

biker chick

In honor of bike to work day, I met a bunch of co-workers at Palo Alto High School at 7:15am for a bike ride caravan to work. I must say, biking was really nice - and my new goal is to do it more frequently. My current routine of wake up, drive to work, sit for 9 hours, drive home, eat, sleep, rinse, repeat isn't the most active/healthy lifestyle. With the weather as beautiful as it is, I think I am finally out of excuses NOT to bike.

Although the above picture was taken weeks ago on the way home from the farmers market, I felt like it was representative of my morning (same kick ass bike at least).

tonight's the night

I haven't yet mentioned this on my blog, but my brother's girlfriend Ali is one of the three final contestants on America's Next Top Model. Tonight is the final episode (CW tv, 8pm PST), so keep your fingers crossed! Doesn't she photograph beautifully?

remembering memaw

One year ago today, my lovely grandmother Memaw passed away. Memaw was my mother's mother and she lived with us from the time that I was about three (?) until she moved down the street to a nursing home when I was a senior in high school (she had advanced Alzheimer's disease). The photo (one of my favorites) above shows her in her military uniform - she joined the Army during the Second World War.

I was named after her (and my dad's aunt too actually). Check us out on the porch swing above - she always had a wonderful smile, peaches and cream skin, and lovely wavy hair.

Memaw wasn't your ordinary grandmother. She was our constant companion and friend - she sewed us costumes, read us many books, built forts out of paper bags (see above), and walked me to school everyday. She pointed out the morning glories that grew on the corner of 6th and Prytania and said hello to the "good morning dog" on 2nd and Prytania when he would growl in our direction as we passed. She also made chicken pot pie without the veggies for my brothers (also with extra crust). She also made raspberry jello jigglers, bought raspberry sherbert, used the butter spread that had cartoon corn on the side, got the bread with the nuts, and made hot chocolate with milk. Also - she was the only person in the family who could make gravy without bouts of anxiety.

We miss our Memaw - but luckily we have lots of wonderful memories from so many happy days in the backyard and evenings in her living room. Now if only my parents knew how many nights we had snuck to her apartment to have a second helping of dessert...

Happy Mother's day!

Here is my lovely mother when she was pregnant with me. Little did she know that five more would follow! On the days where I can hardly take care of myself - I look back and wonder how she did it! My superhero mom made it all seem effortless. I love this picture because I think it is really cute how my mom and dad sort of match in this photo. Some of it must have rubbed off on me... because here I am (wearing a very similar plaid) last Christmas.

Here are all the ladies of the Ryan family - my mom, Bridget, Cecilia, myself, and Mallory. Happy Mother's day to moms everywhere!

gone walking

After a week that flew by, I am excited to slow down - go for walks, read books, and sleep late.

p.s. I took this picture at the Stanford dish last night. It was the perfect evening for a walk...

double the delight

The double delight rose is one of my favorite flowers. I first fell in love with them because they grew outside my fiance's house during his last year in school. The photo below was taken of a flower that grew at his house.

Therefore, when given the opportunity to plant some flowers at our house - I knew that one of them had to be the double delight. After a few failed attempts to graft roses from his old house, we bought a bare root rose bush from the Summer Winds nursery in Mountain View. The rose below is the first bloom it has produced.

It isn't as pink as I would have expected. However, the fragrance is very strong. I am looking forward to seeing how it changes as it continues to bloom. I am just happy to have kept the plant alive long enough for it to bloom!

goats!

Check out Google's creative way to mow the grass. Thanks to Kevin for sharing this photo.

be nuru

Jake Harriman, a classmate and friend of my fiance, started Nuru International after business school. We were lucky enough to spend some time with him this weekend - his passion and drive are truly infectious. I wanted to share the above video, and there are many more if you are interested.

grandpa lightning

My brother's fiance Mallory lost her father to cancer last weekend. To my (almost 2 year old) niece, he was granda lightning - what a wonderful grandfather name. Today is his memorial service in New Orleans, LA. Although I can't be there, I am thinking of Mallory and the entire Taylor family today. I found this poem a while ago and found it comforting - hopefully it will provide some comfort for others.

Death is nothing at all...

Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped away into the next room.

I am I, and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other, that we still are.

Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me
In the easy way that you always used.

Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed
At the little jokes we enjoyed together.

Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
That it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect,
Without the trace of shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was;
There is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
Because I am out of sight?

I am waiting for you, for an interval,
Somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.

All is well.

Nothing is past; nothing is lost
One brief moment and all will be as it was before
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!

- Henry Scott Holland

the wild west

Last Saturday, one of my former professors Jane Woodward hosted a reunion at her gorgeous beach house in Pescadero. Pescadero is a town on the Pacific Coast, just over the Santa Cruz Mountains from Palo Alto. The reunion was to celebrate the anniversary of a class trip to China. Jane and her company MAP were extremely generous and subsidized the cost of a two week educational trip to China for more than 25 students. The trip had an energy focus and we visited the 3 Gorges Dam, a CFL light bulb factory, a coal plant, a solar PV plant, a wind farm - to name just a few of the sites we saw. Over the two weeks we visited 6 cities all across China and it was an incredible experience.

I took these photos at Jane's beach house last Saturday. According to John TH (aka the weatherman), Pescadero is usually socked in with clouds at this time of year. As you can see - it was absolutely gorgeous. At only ~50 minutes from the Palo Alto area, it is an escape that is close enough to feel convenient, and far enough to feel remote - the perfect combination.

Thanks again to Jane for hosting us! I had a wonderful time.

the miracle worker

Last Christmas, my fiance got the William Sonoma Vegetable Chop and Measure from his mom. I must tell you, that we have used this thing almost every day for the last 4 months. It is amazing. When I used to make red beans and rice, chopping the celery, onion, green onion, and green pepper took 30 or so minutes. Now, it takes about 5 and the chop is perfect. It is sort of strange to see such a hearty, homey dish like red beans and rice come out with perfectly chopped veggies. Last night I was raving about our chopper to Julie and Julia, and I realized that I should spread the love even wider and post a photo on my blog. So here is my secret, my favorite kitchen tool - the WS chop and measure. Happy cooking!

a man for others

Yesterday at lunch, I attended the Volunteer Recognition Luncheon put on by the Junior League of San Jose. It was an event to recognize outstanding volunteers serving San Jose and the greater Bay Area. It was a deeply moving and incredibly inspirational event. While all the award recipients were dedicated, committed, and deserving... one of the 10 winners stood out among the rest - my fiance's mom, Barbara Mount. Mrs. Mount received the Voluntarism At Its Best Award for her work with the JW House. Here is the video that describes her work (I am assuming that the Junior League will eventually post this video on their website, but until then... a video of a video will have to do).

The story of JW and Mrs. Mount is truly inspirational. JW was a student at Bellarmine high school, where Mrs. Mount worked with the choir - meeting JW when he asked to join the choir to play the bongos. Then, as a freshman, JW was diagnosed with brain cancer. During his battle with cancer, he came up with the idea of creating a "home away from home" for other children and families receiving treatment who needed a place close to the hospital to stay. Mrs. Mount took this idea and made it a reality - a truly remarkable feat. To read more about JW, or to make a donation, visit www.jwhouse.org. As Mrs. Mount said in her acceptance speech - JW was truly a man for others.

happy birthday Eli

Last night we went to the Old Pro in Palo Alto to watch playoff hockey and to celebrate Eli's birthday. Above you can see a shot of Eli's birthday cake - flaming candle and all. Of course, we did also ask the waitress to bring a shot that went with smores - and she obliged with a chocolate cake shot, which Eli downed for the occasion (pictures which I won't post here). Happy 31st birthday Eli!

proud parents of lovely blooms

Wednesday night when I got home from work, I noticed that the 'hot cocoa' rose purchased by my fiance's mom had bloomed! What a beautiful soft shade of red. These blossoms represent the first outdoor plant that I have managed to keep alive (or healthy) long enough to flower! We brought the blooms inside and I took their photo with a nibby bar and the champagne mango I ate for dessert while watching my brother's girlfriend on America's Next Top Model (new episodes at 8pm on Wednesdays). Thanks again to Mrs. M for the rose bush!

mother Earth

"I like trees because they seem more resigned to the way they have to live than other things do." - Willa Cather, 1913

I thought I would share a quote, a note, and a photo that I got from my mom - to show appreciation not just for my mother Earth, but also for my earthly mother. Above is a quote from her favorite author, sent in honor of Earth day.

As for the photo? "Tommy got this wonderful cypress tree from an Earth Day celebration at the Audubon Zoo when he was an little, blonde curly-haired 8 yr old. He came home with a tiny seedling wrapped in wet newspaper & said, "Let's plant it". So we did. It has survived Steve Wiget, Katrina, Gustav & just living with us, in general. Tommy is coming home this weekend & I want to take a picture of him & his family under it's beautiful green furry limbs. Maybe a new tradition for Earth Day!" -Mom

Cheers to traditions new and old. :)

Earth day 2009

"When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the Universe" - John Muir

something wicked this way comes...

Last week my fiance and I went to see Wicked in San Francisco. It was so much fun! We had gotten the tickets for a discount through my work months ago, so I had almost forgotten how excited I was to see this musical! Not only was the music wonderful, but the sets and costumes were fantastic. They were playful and unusual - like nothing I had ever seen. We went home and downloaded some of the songs so we could remember some of our favorite parts.

Then on Sunday, Dave and I went to see the San Jose Sharks play the Anaheim Ducks in the second game of the first round of the NHL playoffs. The tickets were a gift from Dave's family friends Andy and Joselle - SUCH a generous and fantastic gift! We got to sit in the 18th row in section 106 - which in the Shark Tank (aka the HP Pavillion) gives you an amazing view of all the action. Unfortunately, the Sharks did not bring their best on Sunday and they are now down two games to Anaheim in the series that is best of 7. The next two games will be in Anaheim - tonight and Thursday night, so wish the Sharks good luck! It looks like they might need it...

cystic fibrosis

At Google, there is a program called Authors@Google that bring in many different speakers on a wide variety of topics. A few weeks ago they hosted two authors Anabel Stenzel and Isabel Stenzel Byrnes, who discussed their book which they wrote to describe their experience with Cystic Fibrosis. The authors are twins, both have CF, and are of German and Japanese decent (CF is pretty rare in Asian populations). As someone with a close connection to Cystic Fibrosis, I thought that it was an interesting video to pass along.

nola belle

My little sister Bridget came to visit me in Northern Cali from April 3 - April 12. We had such a great time together. She even cut 10 inches from her hair while she was here for Locks of Love. I did the same thing in the summer of 2005 - right before 6 weeks in India. It can be pretty scary!

We did everything from make lamb cakes to shop for wedding dresses. Bridget was the mastermind behind the red velvet cake. Here she is hiding her creation in cream cheese frosting.

Loved having little B in town! Although she lives all the way in New York City - you can see her everyday on her blog. Check it out!